I don’t think you can be kinky and not own at least a few toys. For those of you who might not understand, when I say “toys” I’m not referring to teddy bears, puzzles, sports equipment, or any Xbox or other computer-type games. All D/s dynamics include equipment, or toys. Some couples enjoy enhancing their intimacy with vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, scented lubricants, anal beads, ben-wa balls, etc. As I’ve said before, the list can be limitless. As long as the two of you have imagination, nearly anything can be considered a toy. You need not even buy them; they are all around you.
So… what do you and your significant other enjoy? Are you all about the pleasure? Do you like to spice things up? Have you both discovered the pleasure of pain? For many couples, bondage is a real turn-on. Some Dominants enjoy nothing more than learning the most intricate styles of Shibari rope bondage to tie up their submissive in stunning knot artwork. They need nothing more – the gratification comes by seeing her bound in their creation, helpless. The rope and the submissive are their toys.
As for us, Master is a sadist, and we have a selection of belts, floggers, paddles, crops, gags, a spreader bar, cuffs, collars, and too many butt plugs to list. We have a Hitachi wand. Sometimes we (He) order something only to find it doesn’t live up to expectations! There are things we have not yet tried. We have not yet experimented with wax, needles, rope, canes or whips.
Now tell me… what’s in YOUR toy box?