Something that’s bothered me for quite some time now is quite simply, this:
SUBMISSIVE
We are submissive in our manner and name. I, for one, do not like to be confused with a sandwich or a ship which is capable of remaining under water for long periods of time. I’m also not “subby” or “subbie”. Sir does call me sub from time-to-time, and during our next downtime or non-D/s chat, I’m going to share with him my thoughts on this subject. Of course, whatever He chooses to call me is what I will answer to, because after all, I am His.
The only name I get now is nijntje but I’m not sure how I would feel about anything else unless a hot play or scene scenario! Thanks for the share, you have caused me to stop and think! 🙂
And good thinking on the communicating your feelings, I believe that is the nature of the D/s beast! *hugs*
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i loathe subbie or subby… thankfully it has never occured to Mr F to call me such things – yet!
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Sadly, Sir still calls me sub when he’s annoyed with me. I therefore must learn to not have him be annoyed with me! Smiling…
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smiles …
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